Big Buddy Volunteer Mentor (Male Role Model)
Be the Role Model You Wish You Had
Big Buddy is a mentoring programme that changes lives for the boys who need a steady male role model, and for the men who step up to be that person. We match boys aged 7–13, who don’t have a father figure in their lives, with everyday good guys from the community. As a Big Buddy, your role is simple: Be the constant he needs. It’s that simple.
Why It Matters
Some boys grow up without a consistent male role model and that can affect how they see themselves and the world. A Big Buddy offers:
- A steady, positive presence in their life
- Someone who listens, encourages, and believes in them
- Real connection — built through time, trust, and showing up
What Little Buddies Get From It
- More confidence to believe in themselves
- A sense of self-worth and belonging
- Courage to try and experience new things
- The feeling of being seen, heard, and valued - that he matters.
- A positive outlook on life and what he can accomplish
What Big Buddies Get Out of It
- Building a genuine friendship with a kid who needs someone like you to help them
- Experiencing the pride and joy of helping a boy believe in himself
- The satisfaction of knowing you're helping shape a young life
- Sharing laughs, new experiences, and moments that stick with you forever
- Finding purpose through giving back in a way that directly impacts someone else's life because you showed up
You Don’t Need to Be a Superhero
We’re not looking for perfection — just good, reliable men who care and are willing to give a bit of their time. There’s a boy out there who could really use someone like you.
Requirements:
What we're looking for in a Big Buddy?
- Between your 20s and late 60s (but more importantly, with a big heart)
- Able to commit a few hours each week — especially on weekends
- Have a car and a full driver’s license to get around
- Are a New Zealand citizen or permanent resident
What You Can Expect from the Screening Process
- Your safety and happiness — and that of your Little Buddy — is our top priority
- All men who apply go through a thorough but friendly screening process
- This helps make sure you’re the right fit for Big Buddy — and that we’re the right fit for you
- The process usually takes around 6 to 8 weeks from your first induction evening
Along the way, you’ll go through a few key steps:
- Character reference checks
- A police background check
- A relaxed home visit
- A one-on-one chat with one of our clinical assessors
Don’t worry — we’re here to support you every step of the way
A Police background check is required for this role.
Time commitment:
Your Time Makes the Difference
- Just 2–3 hours a week — that’s all it takes to change a boy’s life
- We ask Big Buddies to commit for a minimum of 12 months
- Why? Because consistency builds trust, and trust builds confidence
- It’s a small slice of your week — but it can mean the world to your Little Buddy
Getting started:
The first step is to express your interest by filling out the form below.
We will then put you in touch directly with the organisation for more information on the role and how to proceed.
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